June 2011
any damn way, the voice is on.
i love cee lo
i want to hug and squeeze and kiss up on him
and maybe even lick his scalp like tisha campbell did giancarlo esposito in school daze
yeah i said it
fight me
something that's been rubbing me the wrong way...
especially when dealing w/ self-identified black folks from the US and folks we read as black, who may or may not incorporate imagery and/ or items from groups of ppl indigenous to this place we call the US.
not all of us know ourselves in such a way to include or exclude white folks or indigenous folks when discussing who we are.
some of us just know our phenotypes — which give us (and...
3 Weeks From Now...
lifeofanappyheadedfatchic:
I’ll be laying up in a hospital bed, recovering from my surgery.
As I get closer, I find myself dealing with “deep” things. I’ve been in therapy, unbeknownst to most around me (but I guess so now) and a lot of things have surfaced for me.
The most recent thing is the idea of shedding my shell. I have experienced significant sexual trauma in my life, starting at an...
nikaras asked: Keep it up, my friend! I love your posts.
May 2011
A rarely discussed form of self-censorship happens routinely on college...
– Jeffrey R. Young, “Pushing Back Against Legal Threats by Putting Fair Use Forward” in The Chronicle of Higher Education. See the book under discussion, Reclaiming Fair Use: How to Put Balance Back in Copyright byPatricia Aufderheide and Peter Jaszi. (via nyrbclassics)
Being Latino cannot be the defining factor as to why we/her friends are...
– from “Latino friends are like any others: A response to Alex Levine’s post on Being Latino”, gabriellerivera.com
To be truly visionary we have to root our imagination in our concrete reality...
– bell hooks (via theasefountain)
Rape Victim Forced to Apologize by Church Speaks...
katchin05:
A Great Wilderness: Rape Victim Forced to Apologize by Church Speaks Out
soyxicana:
onmostsurfaces:
helvetebrann:
A teenage churchgoer raped by a fellow believer was humiliatingly forced to apologise to her entire congregation for getting pregnant out of wedlock.
Tina Anderson, who has waived her legal right to anonymity, was then ‘banished’ by church leaders to another...
New Australian documentary looks at sex workers... →
Scarlet Road centres on Ms Wotton’s tireless campaigning for the rights of sex workers and for people with disabilities who are typically perceived as asexual and not in the dating game.
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ribs and a salad for breakfast.
cuz i fuckin feel like it.
places i wanna go in the near future:
dallas
new orleans
los angeles
the bay area
mexico (veracruz, to be specific)
amsterdam
morocco
johannesburg
london
bahia
gibraltar
this is only partially connected to the discussion...
radicallyhottoff:
so I’m making it a separate post—but—yeah, tequila made me think about how latinos are represented, especially in context to booze, and then all the “i don’t get it how is it rape” made me think about how people are iron clad fucking ANIMALS when it comes to knowing about what’s legal with immigrants—WHEN YOU COMMIT A CRIME, YOU DON’T GET REWARDED WITH CITIZENSHIP is the whole...
Beware
atapestryofdisasters:
so, um yeah.
if you found me via the “social justice assholes” list, all i can say is i’m damn proud to be on it and in the company of the other Tumblrs on it.
if you are here because you, like me, figure that anyone who is called a social justice asshole by white Libertarians is probably pretty cool, allow me to warn you of who i am:
i am a queer hijabi Muslimah of...
revolutionarytheoryofhappiness asked: just found your page, LOVE it! Thanks for the beautiful imagery and provocative thoughts.
Kinky Black and Male
dingane1:
For those that have followed me for any amount of time are probably aware of my kinky sexual personality, which I love. I am indeed kinky. But I wish to share some of my experiences and frustrations as a black kinky male.
As we know America is a sexually repressed society and the Kink community exists as a non-judgmental space for people to explore, indulge, and enjoy relationships and...
beam global, hornitos' parent company, has a...
it does not have a wall where we can leave comments.
but, thanks to their main website i found a listing of each brand manufactured by beam global spirits and wines…
Courvoisier 12
Courvoisier 21
Cruzan 9
EFFEN Cucumber Vodka
JDK & Son’s 03
Knob Creek Single Barrel Reserve
Maker’s 46
Red Stag
Old Crow Reserve
Sauza Margarita Cocktail
Teacher’s Origin Scotch...
Shaun King on Eddie Long (TW: discussion of sexual... →
LOLOLOLOLOL. they keep deleting. we keep posting....
hornitos tequila and their parent company (beam global) will rue the day someone gave the green light to that fucking commercial.
also: deleting our comments while we simultaneously post the text here doesn’t help shit.
my latest:
Quoting directly from your parent company’s marketing code, under Responsible Consumption, any brands represented via your parent company should...
Hornitos has deleted all of our comments.
atapestryofdisasters:
so this is what i just posted:
oh hey, and guess what? deleting posts that ask *you* as a company to “behave responsibly” does not fix the problem. non-consensual sex is still rape, and rape is still never a punchline, nor romantic, nor something to be used to sell drinks.
their Facebook:
http://www.facebook.com/HornitosTequila
whoa. shit. wait a minute.
someone...
one more time, for the people in the cheap seats:
thecurvature:
dopegirlfresh:
if you have to deceive someone
if you have to intoxicate someone
if you have to threaten someone
if you have to use violence against someone
in order to engage that person in sexual activity of any kind
you are wrong. you are engaging in coercive sex. coercive, meaning the person consented under duress. under threat of personal safety. without having a fully...
and given that bishop steady wrong just settled...
i’m really clear on what rape culture is and does.
to quote the late chad “pimp c” butler: and a fight go with that.
i'm gonna take a break from tumblr for a few...
remember, it’s cee lo’s birthday. go wear something glittery, feathery, or generally snazzy.
This is disgusting. When she wakes up, realizes what has happened, who will be...
– what i wrote on the hornitos tequila wall.
they will probably delete it
but if we all put something, someone is bound to see it before they delete it
please like their page and share your disgust
(via zami)
one more time, for the people in the cheap seats:
if you have to deceive someone
if you have to intoxicate someone
if you have to threaten someone
if you have to use violence against someone
in order to engage that person in sexual activity of any kind
you are wrong. you are engaging in coercive sex. coercive, meaning the person consented under duress. under threat of personal safety. without having a fully clear mind with which to...
just posted to the hornitos facebook page. let's...
So. Hornitos Tequila deleted my comment on their...
An Open Letter to Hornitos Tequila and Hulu.Com
peecharrific:
To Hornitos:
Dear Sir or Ma’am:
I find it odd that at the same time your commercial about the twin brothers promotes date rape and sexual assault, you advise your customers to “be responsible” with your beverage. Your commercial is harmful and disgusting. Rape is not a joke. Date rape is not a joke. Every 2 to 3 minutes in America another woman is raped. Those survivors who...
Goodbye Food Pyramid hello Dinner Plate →
lefthandedlibra:
The Obama administration is about to ditch the food pyramid, that symbol of healthy eating for the last two decades. In its place officials are dishing up a simple, plate-shaped symbol, sliced into wedges for the basic food groups and half-filled with fruits and vegetables.
Hipsters are a driving force behind gentrification, driving out low income...
– s.e. smith, Hipster Racism (via darkjez)
you mean there are people who still haven’t figured out that they’re just budding yuppies in disguise?
(via ayiman)
An amazing article. Read it.
(via mycultureisnotatrend)
Fucking hipsters. -_-
(via roropcoldchain)
Happy Birthday, Cee Lo! →
soulsanctuary:
As Soul Sanctuary is in the business of recognizing and supporting all forms of soulful genius, we would be remiss if we didn’t give a shoutout to one of the most innovative and delightfully kooky personalities in the industry! Do it up big, sir. You’re having one hell of a ride these days.
"if a guy punches you, he likes you"
atapestryofdisasters:
thagoodthings:
sapphrikah:
atapestryofdisasters:
sigh…
really? they did not just go there.
Ah yes, let’s tackle this today.
That movie pointed out something in the very beginning—that straight womyn are socialized to believe that men being cold or even abusive is a sign that they like you. It may sound a little ludicrous but think about it, when we were younger,...
Because so many doctors are no longer in business for themselves, many of the...
– Doctors Soften Their Stance on Obama’s Health Overhaul - NYTimes.com (via frenchnomenclature)
Hey, Shorty! Review
latinosexuality:
“The book contains 12 “chapters” that provide the evolution and need for creating and sustaining Girls for Gender Equity (GGE) which segues into the work youth members of Sisters In Strength, a part of GGE, crafted, evaluated, implemented and produced on sexual harassment in their community. The main focus is utilizing Title IX in NYC public schools and holding those schools and...
There is an article (or many many) circulating labeling SlutWalk and its...
– slutwalk (via grrrlvirus)
This response makes me feel as though these women didn’t read the entire article. Instead of getting defensive and starting off by saying that they are being labeled white supremacists (which they are NOT, I repeat, NOT being labeled as) why not respond to some of the...
I hope you do not think that a vote for John Kennedy took you off my shit list.
– Gil Scott-Heron, rest in power. funny cause it’s still so RELEVANT. (via so-treu)
I swear. I SWEAR. we are in the middle of a Rain...